Safety Guidelines
Your safety and security are our top priorities
Meet in Public Places
For initial meetings, choose well-lit public locations like cafes, libraries, or community centers where others are present.
Tell Someone
Always let a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to return.
Start with Short Visits
Keep first meetings brief (30-60 minutes) to get acquainted before committing to longer arrangements.
Keep Your Phone Charged
Ensure your phone is charged and accessible. Have emergency contacts readily available.
Protect Your Personal Information
- Don't share your home address until you're comfortable
- Avoid sharing financial information
- Be cautious about sharing social media profiles early on
- Use The Village's messaging system for initial conversations
Trust Your Instincts
- If something feels wrong, it probably is
- Take your time getting to know someone before committing
- It's okay to decline or cancel if you're uncomfortable
- Report suspicious behavior immediately
Look for verified badges on profiles. These indicate users who have completed identity verification through our admin team.
Want to get verified? Upload your ID in your profile settings. Our team will review and verify your identity within 24-48 hours.
Emergency Services
In case of immediate danger, always call 911
Crisis Hotlines
- National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988
- Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
- Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
If you encounter suspicious behavior, harassment, or any safety concerns, please report it immediately:
- Use the "Report" button on any user's profile
- Block users who make you uncomfortable
- Our admin team reviews all reports within 24 hours
- You can report anonymously - your identity is protected
Remember: Reporting helps keep our community safe. If you see something concerning, say something.